Being patient through this is the hardest thing you will need to do. As you work through the process you will see where everything fits.
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Reflecting on my situation reveals typical male behavior. Lack of overt signs of love, being quiet and moody, being reserved and not being very emotional around my WAW. Can GD actually validate the reasons for becoming a WAS? In other words would outward displays of affection actually be doing a 180?
Every case is different however any efforts in this regard may well get the "Too little too late" remark.
The best thing you can do do is STOP DOING WHAT IS NOT WORKING. That alone will help.
As in the book you can try different things and note the reaction you get.
The very best thing you can do is concentrate on yourself. The only way to get your W back is to attract her back. This is not a fast or easy process. The quicker you get yourself together and at least appearing happy and well adjusted the better.
