Originally Posted By: Hurtin4certain

My daughter told me that OM doesnt sleep with W anymore but one morning she woke up and W's bra and underwear were in the living room next to OM's boxers.


Criminy. H4C, it's time for you to set some boundaries, my friend. Being a LBS AND a doormat does not become any of us.

IMO, if she is serious about you two getting back together, she needs to do something immediately:

1) OM has to GO. NOW. Not tomorrow, not the day after, NOW. Or, if he can't get out this minute, she has to. She has to cut the contact and never speak/see/interact with him again. PERIOD. No ifs/ands/buts.

If she's not serious, if she's just stringing you along, you tell her the above, and you'll find out mighty quick.

You do you...be strong, GAL, work at your great new job, but don't let her drag you this "I want you back" bullchit while she sleeps with some other guy.

I'm pulling for you!!

Regards,

ntl


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H: 32
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Married 8/01
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