H4C,
Actions, not words. Quit trying to fill in the blanks. Underwear on the floor? GMAB! Unless you actually see things with your own eyes quit making up scenarios. Be cautious about her until OM goes away, permanently, but don't let your imagination or innuendo get away with you. For all you know she went to bed earlier than him, dropped her bra and he pulled off his shorts later. See, I can make up scenarios too. He could have put them out as well.

All you know is that he's still there. Until he's gone most things will just have to wait.

NH


Me - 47
Her - 46
4 kids, 2 still at home