I have another question. I admit I dont knw exactly what is proper here becuase in our generation we are hardly ever referred to as Mrs. XXXXX, but yesterday in a letter from my H attorney she referred to me as Ms. xxxxx I have never been refferred to as Ms. and I know that may seem petty but today I am still Mrs. Our society has no respect for the marragie and its meaning......but my question is this after the divorce am I really Ms not Mrs? Please advice i know a dumb question but I still have it thanks