In a way I see your wife's point that things are worse now that she has told you what she's thinking and you are reacting to it. Before you were still involved in the marriage despite the fact that she had turned away. Now you are both turned away, and that is worse.
She is not THINKING she is DOING.
Originally Posted By: Sara
If you think that you and she could have a better relationship than this, and if you think your kids deserve a happy household with both a mother and a father, then talk to her about taking 2 days to improve the communication. Book a Retrouvaille weekend. No matter which way it goes, together or apart, you will get a lot out of the weekend. It is a great place for spiritual growth.
This seems like 'R-Talk' which is counter to DB'ing. I'm not sure if it is a good or bad idea. Suggesting it may push her away.
I guess I can write her an e-mail with this idea. That way she doesn't have to 'debate' it with me. She can read it and choose her path.
