((((palgal)))) Well, I think I am to the point where something has to change. Things have been essentially the same for more more than three years, probably more than that.
Hmmm, you got right to the meat of the issue there, pal! The best outcome I can imagine would be a better M. But, I am not sure that I want to be married to my W. And, I'm not sure that there is really much that can be done about that. I'm becoming more convinced that she is the way she is, I'm not sure that she could change if she wanted to. And, to some extent, I guess I'd say the same about me. Other than the kids, and the fact that it will certainly cost us, I really struggle to come up with any reasons to be married to her. I don't like that answer, particularly, but there it is.