Haven't talked to MIL since four days ago when I DIDN'T tell her H was moving out. Have talked to H every day except today (although it is only noon so who knows), but HE has been the one to call ME. Haven't brought up the MIL sitch bc I really am not sure how to do it without causing a fight. Guess if/when he starts packing up Monday I will have to mention it? Also, we haven't talked AT ALL about who will have the kids which days/weekends. Also haven't talked about how we are telling our S. Do I continue to wait for him to take the lead? I feel like since he is the one who wants to move out and take time to "figure himself out", he should have to take responsibility for working on our time schedule and talking to our kids about it. I really want to work on my GAL--schedule nights out with a friend, buy tickets to a concert or something like that--but since I don't know which nights are my "kid nights", I don't want to schedule anything yet. No need to pay a sitter on a night I get to have my kids when I can go out on "Dad's night". ANY ADVICE??
