Originally Posted By: Corri
I realize there are some things that are just different for men and women... but the reactions and the feelings we have to things (whether I think it is a big deal, or you do, or he does) come from similar places. And though we may not understand what 'sets someone else off,' the feelings behind it are genuine. To then stand there and say to someone... 'wtf, why are you being this way? This isn't a big deal...' that just minimizes someone. Invalidates them.

Which we all here, have experienced time and time again. We all know how much that hurts.

It was saying to him... 'you're hurting me. Stop it. If you don't want to, for your own reasons, that's fine. But don't minimize me in the process, or try to talk me out of something I'm feeling.' He understood, then, what I meant.

Can you clear this up Corri...it was a little too cryptic for me? Just kidding {as IC ducks a sucker punch from Lil} Very well put Corri...now get back to answering all those e-mails \:o Love ya kid \:\)

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