Thanks for the update, HB. I read your other two threads a week or so ago -- truly great threads, more engaging than a novel and I learned so much that was useful for myself. I loved, loved, loved the encouraging notes from Theoden! ("... you're gonna smoke that bitch... " will be on a permanent loop in my brain) So much support here in this online community. And I so much admired your sheer refusal to give up. Kudos, HB, for looking after your family while under extreme duress.
I was interested in what you had to say about Retrouville weekend. Actually, I wish you had written more about it. H and I are attending the Feb. 8/9/10 weekend. If you get a chance to write I'd love to hear more about your experience with Retrouville and how it changed your marriage dynamic.