Thanks, Matilda. Good advice as well. I guess your nephew's house at Christmas saddens me on so many levels. I know you were all having a good time, but, I have no brothers or sisters, our friends were my friends. She probably gets to keep all of that, and I have to find a whole new life. It sucks! Not being to be together when your kids get married, not being grandparents togeher. It all seems so disposable these days.
I guess I'll start with an email very shortly. Let's see if I can get some more opinions.
