Kids- D10, S8, great kids, we split time with them- (i have them Thurs afternoon thru Sun PM... ) She's a greta mother, and I'm told I'm a good dad... The one thing we have absolutely agreed on is minimizing the effect of this on the kids.
OM? Yeh, a bunch. Last March, she started cruising the web, looking for excitement, and when I found out, I tried at first to "be understanding", and even let her know that I thought she had an "itch" that needed to be scratched. I was far more hurt by the later lies and deceptions than by her sexual experimentation. My guess is that she's been with probably a dozen guys. Andmore recently, kind of settled down to seeing just one.
I noticed his truck at the house last weekend late, and my SD toldme he's "been here every Fri and Sat night " for the last few weeks. That was tuff. Knowing she's with another man is bad enuf, but sleeping with another guy in my (our) house, on my fr$#@%king side of the bed??? I almost lost it, but was able to control myself this time.
Eric "Fingers Crossed, and working hard!" Me-53 W-43 M-13 SD-16 D-10 S-8 Sep-07/07
