I have seen elsewhere on these boards that sometimes going dark can have the opposite effect than what was intended. Reflecting on my situation reveals typical male behavior. Lack of overt signs of love, being quiet and moody, being reserved and not being very emotional around my WAW. Can GD actually validate the reasons for becoming a WAS? In other words would outward displays of affection actually be doing a 180?
Is it better to do the LRT, GAL and 180 when it may actually be more of the behavior that lead to the WAS syndrome? Family advice has been contradictory. My sister says I should "romance the hell" out of her. I am definetly guilty of taking the M for granted and now that the 2x4 has been removed from my face realize that I must change.
