Fish, my advice to you is to BACK WAY OFF!!! I mean don't talk to her about anything! If she calls, make it short, 1 min. act like you have totally moved on. It may or may not work, but what you are doing right now isn't.
People on this board have been successful in putting their marriages back together. Houndfan did an awesome job. After getting separated, moving out and his wife telling him she wanted a "D" and no longer loved him, he followed DB to a tee and was able to go home and start a new life with his W.
How did he do it...
1. Gave her lots of space. 2. Was very supportive. 3. Asked for nothing, had her initiate almost all contact. 4. Was a very good father.
My sitch had hope, but unfortunately, we are heading for divorce.
