Dr. L,
I think postponing "the talk" until you get back from your vacation is probably best for you. You need to go and get away from all of your thoughts. If you go after you have "the talk" then you will dwell on it and not enjoy yourself. Go and have a great time. Remember, showgirls, showgirls, showgirls, and then more showgirls...




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon