I keep expecting him to be the man I married! And, at one point he was a really great guy and SO nice to me. I think it's natural that I would expect him to be that person. I need to get it in my head that that person no longer exists. It sure looks like him, and I think it's got to be him, then he opens his mouth and I'm stunned.

He told me today that he has an appt with an attorney and he's going to file. I didn't even cry.

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."