And...I think, Frank, you might consider AmyC's insights about the undercurrents of your wife's spirituality. I'm not talking about squishy energy fields, I'm talking about malevolent spiritual forces that encourage her to do one thing and one thing only: make herself the the only person she answers to. It seems enlightened, but it's deep and dark magic. When self-actualization and "growth" are disconnected from commitments to others and to Truth, then all things become acceptable. I don't think your wife is communing with God.
Now there's one cross-post I don't think was coincidental!
