jak, you are right, totally right. The D talk doesn't surprise me one single bit. We did talk about how hard it would be for him to see me move on (he started this talk). I told him "Being single again for me wasn't a path I was planning on. However, if we divorce, then yes, eventually I will move on. I feel we are still young and don't want to be alone." I used to deny it, saying stuff like "It would be a long time before I dated anyone, getting over you...etc", my new comment surprised him a bit.
