Ok, on my way home from work today, I was on a major high way, and passed my H coming in the opposite direction. Across the median, we both caught each others glance. It was so weird, I could not believe that he even looked, yet he almost seemed to stare. When I got home he had been there while I was at work, and left me another note that was kind and he told me he took the dog for another walk, and thanked me again for my kindness, he then said to take care of myself.
I just don't understand him at all. This is all like he is doing a complete 180 compared to the first time that he left me. He seems to genuinely show care and respect for me this time around, but still just tries to avoid me.
The only conclusion I can come to is that maybe he doesn't have another women this time around. Last time he was going to see the same stripper girl at a club she worked at everynight, and he kept denying that there was anyone else until I found proof and went Dark. During that time, he was in total replay and was very much not himself. Now I can see parts of the good man I once knew and loved so much coming through, but he is still avoiding me.
TIPPER