mrs h thanks for the response u know when something happens in this mess and u htink u are going along fine and then bam..u get hit.....i am just like how long..everyone says ..in Gods time...ok....well 3 years..what kind of women would be in hiding from his kid for 3 years...barely have any weekend time..well i did hear he told her i was mentally unstable so i am sure the lies are a mile high....i just dont get mlc.........but when do u man up either admit your mistake or move back to whats proper...I dont think he will ever own this....i know though you are right sit back and watch it unfold...the problem is it will only be between him and God in the end ( and I know thats not a problem really--- I do belive in a just God) becuase we arent even in the same community anymore...and basically after this long people just dont care......