Ugh, I thought I was the only one who caught my H in our home with ow. That was the worst feeling in the world.
My H also hid the fact that he was having an affair for the longest time. Even when I caught them in the house together he told me I was delusional and seeing things.
He told everyone for the longest time they were just friends. I believe this is because they want to look like the victim and good guy in all of this.
It's amazing how well they can lie while in MLC. They sure are convincing that it makes us question if we are really nuts. My H had so many people believing he was just friends with the ow now everyone feels like a fool for believing him.
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gosh...the hardest part is ......the parts about him that i loved the most was his loyality and what he stood for honor and the rest and now there is none of that..
They become the complete opposite of who they were before MLC hit. It's like they were abducted by aliens and we are not dealing with the same person we married.
Grace, I don't think it matters right now whether he is hiding her from you, the fact is that you know he is with her. Eventually the truth will come out and so will all his lies. People will start to see him for who he is at the moment. Just sit still and watch it all unfold.
