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(and I guess I'm a people pleaser) I try to make people happy.


I think a vast majority of people here are that way.
As strange as this is going to sound...I recommend not being so selfless, and being a little more selfish.
Work on your own happiness, rather than thinking you get it from making others happy.
Learn to say "No" to people.
In a weird way, you get more respect.

I too always tried to please others.

Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 01/19/08 12:33 AM.

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