Is this two posts to my thread in the same month? I had better slow down here lol
So today I get a txt message from W asking if I would sign the divorce papers if she goes ahead & files...She did say that there is no good time to do this & prolonging it seems pointless, what do i think?
So I called her & told her....I told her what I have told her maybe 2-3 times now...I will sign the papers, no problem. She said that she plans to come & talk to me about it. I told her that was fine but asked if there was any point in talking about it. She said she just wanted to talk about it rather than talk on the phone..I told her she is welcome to come & talk when she wants. She says she does not know what she wants to say but asked when it would be possible to come to talk. I told her my work pattern & to call me after the weekend as i am busy...She said ok, but theres no rush is there?...
No rush?...I have no idea lol.....
Some other changes that have come to light over the last week or so is that she has looked in to renting her own place. At the moment & for the last 7 months or so she has been living with OM...
I have to say for the last few months, maybe longer, I have given up on trying to save my marriage.......Saving my relationship & friendship with my wife has been more important to me. My marriage, I believe could be over. However, the person that I married is still there. The same person, I am hoping will still be a friend & I have tried very very hard to keep it that way. If i'm divorced in a few months time then so be it. I have learnt so much about myself & what it is I want to do in my life. In some ways I should thank my wife for giving me this kick that I needed. It's made me get in touch with friends that I have not seen in years.
It's made me find the person that I had long forgot about...ME.......
