I also spent some time on AFF back when I was internet dating. I also spent MANY hours in sex chat rooms participating in explicit cybersex. It doesn't interest me now, but at the time, it hit the spot. (And boy oh boy, does it improve your typing speed!!)
However, I never received 200 emails from AFF members (excuse the expression), and I'll bet you didn't either. Also I'm inquiring about the other behaviors corri has been exhibiting recently... it's a "walking on the edge" kind of feeling. I'm wondering what's behind it.