I hung out on AFF for a few days. I e-mail chatted with some of the guys, including one of the nether regions only posters, and pretty much they didn't seem all that different than the average group of guys you might encounter at a bar or on a SSM BB -lol. Which makes sense if you consider that at least a few of the SO's of women posters here have hung out on the site. One guy who was in a SSM pretty much said the exact kinds of sad things most of the guys here say. He actually used the word validation in one of his e-mails. One guy who actually seemed pretty nice/cool had just gotten out of a relationship in which he had been really burned and it was kind of sad because he was just wishing he could find somebody to have sex with but also so that he didn't have to do things like go to the movies alone but he just was way too fried to want to make any sort of emotional connection. The nether regions only guy was actually a kind of cheesey let-me-massage-you-with-scented-oils type. People are people. Of course, it is true that it is highly unlikely that many guys actually get any real non-pro action by posting on that site due to the simple laws of free-market sexual economics.
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