What is your definition of a soulmate? I'm sure that it will differ from mine
From your post, I get the impression that you feel that my choice of the term soulmate was based on the persona created by IC's description of sex above. It wasn't. My definition of soulmate is not based on sex or the type of. It does not include the word perfection or any other words that might give that impression. It does not mention unison. He is not a perfect compliment to me. Let me know what your definition includes. k!
IC's persona is built on that same Kill it n' Grill it walk of life....that carefree WTF?? attitude...but there is also that tender loving side to him. I don't discount any aspect of his persona. Do I get frustrated by him and his way about life? Absolutely! Do I harbor resentment? No way! These same frustrating quirks that he has are also the same attractive traits that draw me near to him. It's not the erotic intimate moments we share, it's not the throw down sex, it's not the humor, it's not WTF? ....it's him...all of him...complete.
