LRT UNDER SAME ROOF III

[ann25]

(((craig)))

Glad you are keeping your emotions in check today. I know it can't be easy. He is working and will continue to do so, don't lose faith!

[COG]

Craig,

Steady now, stay the course. You're gonna be okay no matter what. Jesus loves you!

You've only just begun to fight! Fear nothing, trust in the Lord, and lay down your life for your friend.

God Bless You,

COG

[craig54]

anne, i will not lose faith. totally calm. fearing nothing. just a piece of paper. cog, staying the course. out of my hands.wife just called to see if we needed toilet paper, laughing on the inside. life goes on.

[I_Wanna_Make_It_Work]

Absolutely the right approach, craig. When I read and studied 1 Corinth 13 after my W moved out, I thought - who would run from someone who does nothing but love you? It certainly wasn't my W. Hardly a day goes by when she doesn't call or email. Give Love - Get Love.

Stay the course and obey God. You will be astounded at the blessings that come your way.

[craig54]

not to bore everyone but my wife did actually file. ugh. pray for me.

[I_Wanna_Make_It_Work]

Craig - I'm sorry to hear this. Be strong. This means absolutely nothing in the grand scheme of things. It only means you have to love her more.

My W had documents drawn and presented to me in February last year - I didn't sign them. 5 months later, she asked me NOT to sign them.

It's just another circumstance. She will do what she is being mis-led to do. You do what you have chosen to do.

[craig54]

well, i am angry, i have to get out the house before i say something i will regret. she acts like it is any other day. oh, lets go file papers so we can break up our family. tee hee. sorry for the sarcasm. i need to calm down. majorily.

[I_Wanna_Make_It_Work]

craig - let us here from you.

[craig54]

phil,

well now that the papers are filed. i did not do very well last night. i did great all day long until wife got home and i was angry. should have left before she got home. whats done is done. she has not had them mailed to me yet. she is gone to have one of her work friends do it next week. thing is , i knew they would be filed yesterday. i cant explain why i got mad. i went to a movie by myself. w left a message on my phone saying she was worried about me. my heart feels like it is broken again. how many times can my heart be broken. my weakness belittles me.
for four months my wife has said the same thing everytime, about why she cant stay married to me. i know db says 100%of what she says should be ignored. but it still hurts.the thing is i know deep down that it is not true. i should not let it get to me.

[I_Wanna_Make_It_Work]

I feel your pain, craig. Don't be so hard on yourself, though. You are no different then the rest of us by feeling weak and helpless.

Let me ask you this - what has your W been saying the last 4 months, specifically, about why she can't be married to you? Is there any validity to anything she says on this matter?

List the reasons here. Let's look at them and pray on them. Let's discern if any of it is true or if there is some underlying message, perhaps from God.

Argue her position with me. Put yourself in her shoes.