W took me out to lunch today and payed with her new credit card. We had a very good conversation. OM loves her but she does not love OM. OM talked with her last night and told her that I was a good guy and that she should consider coming back to me. He could tell I was different than most guys by the way I am wanting so much time with the kids in our parenting plan. He told her most guys (probably him I bet) would be off doing their own things following a D.
I told her that there still is a crack in the door and there is path back to restore our marriage and her standing with people that think she is bad. I told her there would be work to done by both of us, the R would not be the same it was and that there is the condition that she cant ever go bar hoping. She is so lost right now on what she wants. She is looking for any admitance from me that our kids are better off living in 2 different homes with divorced parents. I told her that she needs to think long and hard about where she is going with her life. Do you not want to be in a happy marriage with someone for life?
She is seeing her lawyer this afternoon. I hope she eventually sees a counselor so she can get help in sorting out what is important in life.
So she calls me after lunch and wants me home early from my workout so she can get an early start on the night clubbing. This woman needs to find herself badly.
