But I'm not sure that creating a relational strtegy to teach her a lesson is all that healthy for you, even if gets the intended result.
Absolutely agree. Ultimately, this is just pride working here. Or deep despair and desire to get her to realize she wants you again. Which is fine if that is what you want, but I agree with theoden...not very healthy for your growth and detachment.
Regards,
ntl
Maybe you're right, it's 'too soon' to be cutting her out. But it has had an effect. Maybe I need to be a little less 'detached'.
