Listen to me, you dont' need to file for D or S to get child support, go to a CS office now! he has to give you enough to cover rent and all the other bills, by law he HAS to.
Don't let him get away with not paying what is supposed to (when my H left he paid every cent because his D lawyer told him he'd be in deep sh*t if he didnt' pay)

All you need is someone to calculate the expensest, he's all happy that he is rent free at mommy's, well, it is reality check time, he has to go back to work and pay you what he owes you and your child, please dont' let that dead beat off the hook. I know lots of women are afraid to do this, afraid to "rock the boat" or make the WAS angry, but it is beyond this, you must look for you and your child, your H right now is only looking for #1, him.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.