I guess my 180 yesterday, of not letting her 'do things' for me and not acting 'as if' we were in a marriage did have an effect. Now she's uncomfortable and wants to get out faster.
Everyone has counseled me that I have done the right thing by setting the boundary and not allowing her / us to 'act as if'. I agree with this as it fits all the db rules, and the alpha male rules. I guess I should have expected her response - 'got to get a lawyer right away because this is uncomfortable'. And I should expect it, it's what they do.
She is angry and hurt. I contributed to it, and she did too.
