Well, John, believe it or not, I can't actually hear you so I had no idea your nose was clogged. Oh, but wait. I could have guessed b/c i remember too well how you feel right now. Unfortunately, I backslid today and lost my faith for a while and I too have a clogged nose and itchy, red eyes. It happens to the best of us. There is hope for your M - lots of hope. When she still hugs you and still misses you and still gets chugged up talking to you, there is lots of hope. Once you move out it is worse. I know it is hard living there and I thought, "I will be so much better off when I get out of all this." I was wrong. I cannot tell you enough times how wrong my leaving was. Listen to IWMIW. He is very good at this stuff! LadyDi
