I agree that it's not his job but (and I guess I'm a people pleaser) I try to make people happy. Unfortunately, I now know that H wasn't at the top of the list.
Years of little things I've let fester and not REALLY communicated to him what they were moved him down the list. Which, is what I'd like to apologized to him about. I now know that I should have broken the cycle and started doing nicer things for H, then maybe he would have wanted to do nicer things for me and the end result we would BOTH be happy.
Someone should give the DB book to all newlyweds!
I really wish I'd found this book YEARS ago or at least 6 months.
I'm going to go to the gym tonight after work and exercise. Working on the new me (or at least trying to uncover the old one under the fat LOL). Then S15 & I are going to a friends for BBQ steaks. Yum Yum!
