That was a lovely description and it is the heart and soul of "sex" to me what is part of the dilemma that I allow myself to continue being in. I will address some thoughts about this on my thread but in essence, my HD was never a result of lemme just get my quota of "o's" - it is more a result of wanting to touch and explore this person who has chosen to share his time with me and the fact that he appears to have no such desire to do the same with me..............well, I suppose it says more about him than me but the twain don't meet thus, the dilemma. I can "o" so easily that it is kinda like driving through McDonalds - cheap and not very nutritious. Once in a while, in the right situation I can "o" in a way that is soul jarring, that is divine, that isn't about a few shudders in the nether regions etc... The only way I have ever gotten there is when my partner is as wholeheartedly involved in the process as me -not the product, the process. It isn't sex I feel I am missing out on but connection at that level.
Ann - I urge you to find your happiness. No, it isn't about the website. The website gives another way to explore sex and to explore yourself and your partner. I would love to have the opportunity to do just that.
