FLTC, bulimia is triggered when the person feels she has a lack of control in her life. My W has struggled with it since junior high. Basically purging food becomes the only way they feel they are in control. That's something they are able to do when they feel lost. So your W is definitely introducing events in your D15's life that will make her feel out of control. You have to be the rock in her life and maintain stability. Hold your head high, take care of yourself and your kids. It sure sounds like you are the only sane adult they can rely on and they NEED you!
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
