Good, john. It's not entirely anti-DB'ing. A big part is keep her pace. Not getting ahead of her and maybe lagging a little behind. At the beginning, it means none of that initiating ... but as things develop, the rule gets more fluid.

I already sense some clarity, John. Be strong. It's worth every bit of the fight.


Me - 43 and She -36. No kids.
Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs