Hey Heim, thanks for checking in and thanks for the compliments (a girl can never hear those too often! \:\) )... I agree, i have to keep standing up for myself. When he's feeling really down, i get in the habit of letting things slide and I need to make sure that I keep doing it. I was in a really bad place a year ago, i wouldn't stand up, no matter what. If i told him how i felt, it was during a fight through a stream of tears, so it never got through to him i guess... I won't ever let it get back to that point.

thanks again - ann

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