Oh, no, I wasn't going on there to stalk him. My xbf calls me and tells me that that place isn't any big deal... I wasn't buying that argument, but, as I had no first hand knowledge of the place myself, I thought... welp. I'll find out. I did it for the same reasons a person would gather evidence before going to trial. It's good to understand what it is you are arguing. What's a lie and what isn't.

I have no intention of staying on there, and yes, it was stunning. My account is now gone, my email washed clean of the filth. It was quite an eye opening exploration of human behavior.

So when the xbf called again, and I told him I had an active account on AFF for a month, just to determine for myself what is and isn't a big deal... told him how many emails I had gotten... my goodness how his tune changed... \:\) And now he is not continuing to dish out something at me that I am not willing to swallow. Kinda like when you show your cheating spouse pictures of them in bed with another person... kwis?

I wouldn't recommend to anyone slogging through there, cuz it really did make me sick to my stomach... but. I believe xbf is now crystal clear on where I stand.