*nod* I'm not going to worry about W showing or not showing at the party. I'm going to enjoy myself - and have a fun time with friends.
I do want to note: Gaming. Not gambling. As in, character sheets and dice. Roleplaying. *points at self* I'm a geek and proud of it. And still a gamer, too. It's just that it took control of our lives a bit too much for my comfort level. Still a big addiction for her though.
As for the Facebook thing - I'm not going to invest much energy in generating a response to it. If B's wife wants to talk to me in person about it, so be it. But I'm not going to get into anything over e-mail.