Had one of my sons been a daughter, Britta was going to be the name.
Now to you. I quickly read over your posts. The first thing I would like to say is don't try to overthink your actions. I know you are waiting for any tidbit from him, but the best thing to do is just go with the flow. I tend to be a person who answers email and phone calls quickly, so it is just normal. WHat is your normal mode? For instance if he calls at 8:30 on a Tuesday night, are you typically home, If yes, just answer the phone. Don't waste too much time thinking. If you play volleyball Wednesday night, just play. Don;ty interrupt your flow.
As for asking about the address, don;t call and ask. But if he bring his place up, ou nmight just ask so where are you living. If he answers, fine. If not, fine. If he asks why, just respond "just asking."
And in regards to the rest, I asked my ex why she had children with me if she was thinking she didn't want to be with me, her answer was I thought things would change. So the long and short is that the only person who can answer your questions is your H and at this point, I don;t see him doing any of that.
For now, live your life as you always have. Pick up that habby you always wanted to do. Want to grow bonsai, start now. Want to take a class in comparative religions, do it.
Live. Things aren't going to just change right back.
