possibly a little bit of an insight from w:

she made an analogy that thinking about sex for her is like how i feel when i read one of those emails about best friends, or your guardian angels, or a poem about life, and friends, and whatever else that makes a woman feel all mushy inside. she said that's how she feels when and if i send her an email pertaining to something sexual ( trust me, i don't except for this one about the positive things about having sex: good for the skin, makes couples closer, etc. very cute, nothing pornographic), therefore, i would imagine that's how she feels about sex in general.

does anybody know what i am talking about?