I agree with Jenny, it could be interpreted in different ways. It didn't sound that bad to me either. But, you know him better than either of us. God it would suck to see OW around town, I'd want to deck her. Just hang in there, be cautious an see what evolves, no expectations. You know how to do this.

How are things going today?

M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him