My h never moved out. Said he thought about it but never did. Our Sex life is better than ever before and i think it is because we were trying to connect. Now he tells me he loves me but is still a little disconnected but working on it. I guess im trying to say that if he didn't have strong feelings for you he wouldn't care what happened to you. He would go on his merry way with OW and not look back. Can't say that it will be ok in the end but don't give up yet just be the best you can and keep up the mystery. Try as little R talk as you can too.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez