My H's OW is still in the closet. Our friends and families know about her but haven't met her. His coworkers don't know about her. So, I'm hopeful. I know that H is a very private person but somethings got to give.
I think my BIL's talk with him may have given him some food for thought and he may be doing some soul searching. I hope he was listening. BIL thinks he was. Said his demeaner was different than the first time this was brought up. He wasn't being a "salesmen" trying to sell his family on his new, wonderful love.
This weekend I believe that H is spending it with OW. I don't know for sure but my imagination is getting the best of me right now. He's there right now at the place where she works (SKANK!!!!) because he had a meeting there this am (he was there last night too). It's just too convenient to just stay there and spend time with her instead of coming home and spending time with his S's. When the bomb dropped, H told me that he loves OW but can't say that she's "the one". WHAT?!?!?! Probably just trying to be nice to me. However, he doesn't know the whole picture of her. Only knows the hotel ho and going out to eat OW. Also, when H & I had our 1 yelling argument he called me OW's name. WTF!!! Why would he do that?
