annk, your husband is trying to control you with sex. he wants you to feel guilty about the ea. please for your sake, don't let him do that to you. you are giving your soul away every time you do it with him. don't have sex out of guilt. dont demean yourself. your husband needs help, he has major issues. i know you are trying to make up for the ea. but this is not the way. i can remember my wife having sex with me and crying after, it made me feel extremely small. i want my wife to want me, if she doesnt then that is the way it is. you need to be loved , romanced, cared for . that is why you arent attracted to your husband.you are property to him . stand up for for your self. it is your body. if you want to share it with your husband , he needs to treat you like a beautiful woman and not a piece of meat.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023