Starting all over, my story and my dream

[Michael Mc C]

Not sure how I would handle a one-on-one, face-to-face discussion with OM. I have spoken to W's OM on phone and through email. If I remember correctly, wasn't this guy once a friend of yours?

If the A has ended, then I'm not sure that a discussion with him will do much good, other than to appeal to him as a man to back off, end ALL contact and to give you and your W a chance.

When I spoke to W's OM I tried on a few occassions to convince him through logic that what THEY were doing was idiotic and destructive. He bought none of it because he, too, was lost in that fog that my W is in. The one comment I made to him that eventually rang true with him and finally opened his eyes was about how he was using my W's attention & infatuation to forget the pain that was caused by his own W.

Best of luck tonight!