Turns out she did all of the above except seeing the OM. I am thinking to much and need to trust and love. When she got home I just said I was happy she was home. I made sure the kitchen and den were real clean which she really liked. She got up at 5:30 which is very unusual and I asked her if everything was ok. She got mad and felt that I was prying. She gets mad really quickly and thinks I ask to many questions. I only asked her if she was ok. She also got upset when i asked if she was going to S12 lacrosse game tonight. When she left for the day she said she was thinking thru things very carefully which I took as a positive sign. She leaves Monday for her 12 day cruise. I am really going to miss her. "Trust and Love". God help me for I feel much better today.