In case you do not know, but in my case I have the pleasure of seeing the OM at least twice a week in a social setting since we are all members of the same club. The OM's wife is not a member so that makes it even odder in a way.
Anyhow, I do stare at him and as my W says my radar is on, and I do it because I don't trust him and I don't like him.
Since it is affecting me, and I cannot just ignore it I decided to take the bull by the horn so to speak and I am meeting him tonight at the club. He said we can probably find a quiet corner to talk. I have no idea what I will say, or anything but we shall see.
Any suggestions or ideas, and I will keep you posted.
I have had a few good days at home, detaching and just keeping busy by myself in a way. Also working out again which is truly helpful and good for the body and the mind.
