You say you are not pursuing, but you've asked two or three times how she is, or what's wrong. To her, that's pursuing. If she wants to tell you, she will. If she doesn't, she won't. She may well want to forget last night happened. It might be a good idea to let her.
Just an observation.
I did let it go. For the rest of the night I didn't ask. I found out she was a little upset with the kids because she cleaned up the house some today. Found toys and papers in such scattered about. She remained in a down kinda pissy mood but it wasn't directed towards me. Our exchanges were kind. After dinner she received a call on her cell. She looked at it and ignored it then promptly shut the phone off for the night. She and I looked up animal adoption sites and info. All good exchanges there. Whats that song by the Kinks? Paranoia destroyer?
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