isn't it true that if it comes out in the daylight it will burn out faster? Doesn't the game of secretive keep it going longer?
I agree with Michael. There is no way to know.
What I do know is that you can't "unring" a bell. Once the word is out, the reputation of the other person is soiled. This is why I have not told anybody about my wife's infidelity. Oh, I plan to go public with it. Just not right now. I need to give her one final opportunity to come back and make ammends.
Mark,
We have had different opinions and ways of doing things but dude.... we are on the same page here..... I like the "bell" saying..... My Family would NEVER forget or forgive no matter what happened... Yes in the end (if there is an end) the truth will be told.... But for now the bell is silent
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
