Cat, I think your H is very, very lost right now. No, he shouldn't have fallend asleep and blown you off for lunch. Not if he's committed to working on the M and really fixing things.
The problem is (and I've lived this), I don't think he's capable of working on the M right now. I think he is too lost himself to try to meet the needs of somebody else. He doesn't even know how to meet his own needs in a healthy way, so how can he meet yours? He can't.
You will need to find a way to be healthy and happy while your H is trying to figure himself out.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
